How to Choose Flowers for a Wedding: A Florist’s Guide
Weddings are more than just ceremonies-they are expressions of love, style, and personality, and few elements convey that better than the flowers. Whether you’re planning a grand ballroom affair or an intimate garden elopement, choosing the right wedding flowers is essential to creating a memorable ambiance.
But with so many options-roses, peonies, orchids, ranunculus, lisianthus-where do you begin? In this comprehensive guide from a florist’s perspective, we’ll walk you through how to select the perfect blooms for your big day, from style to season to symbolism.
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💐 Why Wedding Flowers Matter
Flowers do more than beautify a space-they tell a story, carry symbolism, and leave lasting impressions. Here’s what wedding florals typically provide:
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Visual cohesion through theme and color
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Emotional tone (romantic, elegant, bohemian, modern)
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Photographic richness and texture
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Personal meaning and symbolism
🌷 Step 1: Define Your Floral Vision
Before choosing actual flowers, clarify your wedding style and aesthetic.
Popular Floral Styles:
Style |
Key Features |
Romantic |
Peonies, roses, soft pastels, trailing vines |
Bohemian |
Wildflowers, pampas grass, bold color pops |
Classic |
White roses, hydrangeas, lush greenery |
Minimalist |
Monochrome palettes, orchids, structured design |
Rustic |
Sunflowers, dahlias, woodsy textures |
Glamorous |
Bold red roses, orchids, dramatic arrangements |
💡 Tip: Create a Pinterest board or mood collage of bouquets, centerpieces, and ceremony setups you love.
🌸 Step 2: Consider the Season
Seasonality greatly impacts both availability and price. Choosing in-season blooms ensures freshness and value.
Seasonal Flower Chart:
Season |
Flowers in Bloom |
Spring |
Peonies, tulips, lilacs, ranunculus, sweet peas |
Summer |
Garden roses, lisianthus, hydrangeas, sunflowers |
Fall |
Dahlias, zinnias, marigolds, chrysanthemums |
Winter |
Amaryllis, anemones, hellebores, roses |
🌿 Year-Round Favorites: Roses, carnations, orchids, calla lilies
🌼 Step 3: Build a Floral Budget
Flowers can range from a few hundred dollars to several thousand, depending on scale and style. A general rule: allocate 8–15% of your total wedding budget for florals.
What to Include:
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Bridal bouquet
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Bridesmaids’ bouquets
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Boutonnieres & corsages
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Ceremony flowers (arch, aisle)
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Reception centerpieces
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Floral installations (hanging, staircases, photo walls)
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Cake flowers
💡 Work closely with your florist to prioritize impact: You may go simple on tables to splurge on a stunning altar piece.
🌺 Step 4: Choose Meaningful Blooms
Want your flowers to tell a story? Here are symbolic choices:
Flower |
Meaning |
Rose |
Love, passion |
Peony |
Prosperity, happy marriage |
Ranunculus |
Charm, attraction |
Tulip |
Deep love |
Orchid |
Elegance, refinement |
Calla Lily |
Purity, beauty |
Baby’s Breath |
Everlasting love, innocence |
💡 Tip: Incorporate a flower from your family heritage or personal memories for added emotional value.
💐 Step 5: Color Palette Considerations
Coordinate your flowers with your wedding palette to create visual harmony.
Popular Combinations:
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Blush + ivory + dusty blue → Romantic
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Burgundy + gold + navy → Elegant
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Peach + sage + cream → Organic chic
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White + green → Timeless classic
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Lavender + plum + silver → Whimsical
Your florist can use color-blocking or tonal gradients to achieve the desired effect. Texture also plays a big role-think berries, foliage, and filler flowers to enrich the bouquet.
🌿 Step 6: Personalize the Bouquet
Make your bridal bouquet truly yours with a few unique touches:
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Wrap with lace from a family gown
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Tuck in a locket or heirloom pin
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Add herbs or wild greens for fragrance and symbolism
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Choose flowers that match your astrological sign or birth month
Need a custom arrangement? Ecoroses LA offers custom design services tailored to your story, theme, and budget.
🌼 Step 7: Ceremony & Reception Florals
Don’t overlook the impact of florals beyond the bouquet.
Ceremony Must-Haves:
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Floral arch or altar
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Petals for the aisle or flower girls
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Pew or chair markers
Reception Essentials:
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Guest table centerpieces
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Sweetheart table florals
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Welcome signage garlands
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Cake or dessert table décor
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Bar arrangements
Bonus: repurpose ceremony florals at the reception to save money and reduce waste.
💡 Step 8: Work With a Trusted Florist
A good florist is your creative partner and logistics coordinator. Here's what to look for:
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Experience with weddings of similar size/style
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Portfolio of real weddings
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Willingness to collaborate on vision and budget
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Availability on your wedding date
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Familiarity with venue (or willingness to do a walkthrough)
💬 Schedule a consultation at least 6–9 months before the wedding-earlier for large or luxury events.
💐 Bonus Ideas: On-Trend Wedding Floral Touches
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Floral chandeliers or suspended installations
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Dried flowers mixed with fresh for texture
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Floral tattoos (pressed petals on the skin)
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Monofloral bouquets (one type of flower)
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Eco-friendly florals (foam-free, locally grown)
🌺 Final Thoughts: Flowers Make the Moment
Your wedding flowers are more than just décor-they’re living art, woven into the emotions and memories of your most important day. Take time to explore your options, work with a professional, and follow your heart when choosing blooms.
Need help choosing the perfect florals? Whether it’s a bridal bouquet or a complete wedding package, Ecoroses LA offers curated arrangements, custom floral design, and expert consultation to make your wedding bloom with elegance and ease.